Pssst…. Voluteering in the USofA

One of those girls is going to volunteer at a summer camp in the USofA. "Actually, I’m quite looking forward to it as I’ve never volunteered in a developed country before and certainly never with 150 or so kids ranging in age from 4-17 all in one place! In the words of an old volunteer buddy from India “yowser!”
We can only hope that there will be follow up blogs detailing her adventure… for from the tone of the blog, this group of girls only celebrate successes.
I particularly liked this entry of the 5 Benefits of Volunteering
Chapter 1 - Pssst…. I’m off to Volunteer at Summer Camp
Chapter 2 - Pssst.... Volunteering; Friends for Life
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Pssst…. WEgo, do YOUgo?

Never in her wildest dreams did Erin Olson think she would be writing about Jesus. "Really, are you kidding me?" she laughs. "But when Jesus gets a hold of your heart, it is hard to let Him go." She keeps a very nice blog, little on the religious side for me but a very nice blog. I don't worry about robbing elbows with anyone and generally look for sites that will expand my experience, and Erin's does.
Erin's PssstPost read "As I stood there in the heat sweating like a pig, the Holy Spirit was whispering to me, “The planting and watering must take place for things to grow and multiply. If we fail to plant, we will never see blooms. If we fail to water, baby believers will fail to take root, shrivel up and die. But, with the right amount of water and care, the believer will dig deep, be secure and teach others how to get just the right amount of water. Some will plant, some will water and some will harvest. It doesn’t matter who does what, it just matters that it gets done. Don’t continue to take in water if you see that someone else needs it more.” (See 1 Corinthians 3:6-7) As I looked over my flowerbeds, I could see this whisper playing out. I noticed my newly planted annuals (Mexican heather and zinnias) were burnt up – some hadn’t even taken root, just flopped over and out of their holes -- a pathetic sight indeed. My more established shrubs were fairing much better. For the time being, they are still green."
Read her post, ponder it and see if you can apply it to your life…
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Pssst…. In Praise of the Golden Mean

So in a moment of relationship evolution, Kate writes a self-effacing blog entry that describes not only her history of "attracting either stolidly stoic men or fawning sycophants", but also how she's not going to put up with men with these traits. But that's not the real find…
The real find is Kate. An inspired writer, artist, poet who is so very accomplished, I'm embarrassed to tell you what I've done in my life. What have you done?
First read her required suitor traits rant and then visit her fab site. Parents be proud!
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Pssst…. A Change in Plans

As she puts it she "was going to work [around the yard] this weekend but as usual life happened. This time it happened in the form of a 50lb foster puppy named Bellamy. I had contacted the Animal Welfare Foundation of Iowa earlier this week to see about maybe fostering for them. However, when I contacted them, I didn't count on how much they needed foster homes and how fast they would get me approved and get me a dog. "
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Pssst…. Does Anyone Have Any Questions..
Rluv writes…
“Someone very special to me is getting married this weekend so I am going to be totally presumptuous and offer some completely unsolicited advice (for lack of a better word). Please keep in mind that i would not presume to say that i know everything about being a husband, just ask my wife! With that being said here goes:
Love: Someone once said that "love means never having to say your sorry", what a load of crap! If you screw up, and you will, have enough respect for your partner to admit it and apologize.”
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Pssst.... Men and Women Aren’t Identical!

In this blog post, Jack discusses how men's and women's intelligences differ. Kind of a sensitive topic but one that might be food for thought.
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Pssst.... My Laptops name is Sweetheart

Our regular Pssst blogger Stephanie Hansen confesses her love on todays blog post for Valentines Day... You'll be surprised... but maybe want to express your appreciation for hardware as well?
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Pssst.... She needs to be left alone!

"I promise you that I love my family. Love them. Would stop a bullet for them. Challenge trains to push them to safety. I wouldn't trade any of them for any amount of treasure.
But.
If I don't get some alone time soon everybody's gonna be visiting me in the loony bin.
For the last ten days to two weeks, everybody has been sniping at everybody else in every single combination you can think of. Constantly. Spouse has been on vacation so he's been helping out enormously (thank you spouse!) but the non-stop warfare has worn me thin. That last little nerve has been scraped raw and everyone has broken out the tap shoes to dance on it."
Albeit sympathizing for Steph's plight, how about the blog being a book or movie plot.
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Pssst.... Social Media is where your customers are.

"There’s been a growing trend in the last few years. Maybe you’ve noticed it in your website’s dwindling traffic or the increased difficulty you’ve had making the front page of Google. Maybe you’ve bought ads online for the first time or resigned yourself to the conclusion that you’re stuck with traditional advertising."
But what if something else is at play? What if all your customers have just… disappeared?
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Pssst.... Can you keep a secret . . ? Why we really need to gossip.

That's the findings of the skincare line Simple who recently conducted a survey of 3,000 British women to see how long they could keep a secret.
One-in-10 of women surveyed admitted to being completely unable to keep a secret -- no matter how confidential the information shared. And 85 percent said they relished having a good gossip.
"Gossip was also used as a means of punishing misbehavior," says Locke. "In bands of hunter-gatherers, those who failed to honor their family obligations, hoarded food, or acted like a 'big shot' were identified and ostracized through gossip."
Sharing secrets among friends can also build stronger bonds, allowing gossipers to build alliances over a secret that may make everyone feel better about their own lives.
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Pssst.... Who Gave You Permission to Whine?
"The T-shirt says, … And Your Whiny, Crybaby Opinion Would Be? … I have to laugh at that question. I’ve never asked it and really don’t want to know.
I’m sure I have whined. I am not proud of it. I can’t remember when I would have done such a thing – but I’m sure I have, at some point, probably, maybe! Whining is definitely something to decide NOT to remember.
Ok. Whine in your room with the door shut but please not to friends and family. Also included in the no-whine zone are service workers, attendants, servers, doormen, taxi-drivers, teachers and neighbors. Maybe now and then to your health care professional, but only if it’s genuine."
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Pssst.... Fab and Not So Fab Things I've Learned

"God's goodness is all around me. Friends are vitally important to women. Life is much fuller when shared with those we love. Wishing you a beautiful day and a heart full of joy!"
In todays Pssst Post Jan lists more than a dozen fabulous and not so fabulous things she's experienced. How does the list compare to your list? Feel free to add your experiences...
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Pssst.... Wanna Buy A Car?

Well, the truth is, it’s all in the dealership or even more so the sales consultant you choose. Not every dealership is alike. Some have the most customer oriented care you can imagine, while others just want your money and to get you off the lot so they can get the next fish on the hook.
Here is one x-dealers advice on how to find yourself a great sales consultant that you can trust.
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Pssst… I can smell your BFF, can you?

"As an in-home design consultant, I visit people’s homes every single day. I would say that 75% of the homes I visit have pets. I don’t have a problem with that, your pets that is. But the smell? Let’s just say I prefer a home that has a fresher scent. Admittedly, pets are not the only culprit when it comes to disturbing scents, but that’s the topic at the moment.
Beyond the initial offense, my concern for you as a pet owner is your health, your children’s health, your guests, and your property value. You probably don’t even know it exists anymore because you’re so used to it."
Alice points out what we all dread to hear... our house might stink! Read her remedies...
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Pssst.... Did you hear that gossiping may be good for you?

Researchers at UC Berkeley have determined that water cooler chatter and idle office tattling can have stress-relieving benefits, provided it is the correct sort of gossip that is helpful to others and not demeaning.
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Pssst.... What about your third act?

Kirsty at "Wren And Her Friends.blogspot.com" has found a great TED video which anyone in their 3rd act might enjoy looking at.
Within this generation, an extra 30 years have been added to our life expectancy -- and these years aren’t just a footnote or a pathology. At TEDxWomen, Jane Fonda asks how we can think about this new phase of our lives.
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Pssst.... Kirstie's Pssst blog

When You Lay Awake at Night Waiting for Your Child to Come Home (or WYLANWYCCH)
KIrstie is a *Pssst*.com'er and gets our support as such.
Today's blog entry is rife with a personal expression but holds words we can all hold dear in our own lives.
"I want a house where everyone is considerate of one another. I do not want a house of rules but of principles. How do you balance that with authority?
I want a house where the parent holds respect and therefore authority. I don't want a house of dictatorship but one with a respected authoritative presence. How do you balance that with yourself, your short-comings?"
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Pssst.... Mum's Gone to La La Land

Pssst is a funny little word and you find it in the oddest places. "Mum's Gone to La La Land" is one of those sites which on first look didn't qualify, I can say this because the "Pssst" just didn't measure up to being in a place that was of any interest ... to anyone. And that's what I'm here to do, find you interesting Pssst Posts. (I dare you to find the Pssst ob Mum's site).
A side benefit of searching for Pssst is that searching takes me to very ODD places. "Mum's Goes to La La Land" is exactly that.... ODD. She's gone around the bend ... and seriously FOUND La La Land! Mum has a twisted mind.
I encourage you to run the site... a guaranteed laugh.
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Pssst.... Wanna Buy a Baby?
"Okay that was probably a shocking thread title, but that is what the call with a referral service felt like today. Their first question was how much are you willing to budget followed by what do you want. (Gee is this like ordering a new mattress?) The entire contact left me feeling....icky. It was implied that we'd need to go out of state and that we should up our budget at least another 15,000 (OMG are you kidding me!) I mean they might as well as said, how much will you pay, right?
We've been looking at other options since our match failed from changing agencies to using a referral service. I feel kinda disheartened by the process..."
Can anyone help?
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Pssst.... Santa wears a bra. And panties. And sometimes pumps

That's because he is a she.
Has to be. Take a look around - there's no other way to explain it. All around the U.S., women are frantically planning for the holiday season.
And men...aren't.
I hate to sound sexist. So I'll just perpetuate a male/female stereotype. This time of year, women cook. We clean. We decorate. We bake cookies for entire school districts. We plan gourmet menus for people we hate.
We deck the freaking halls.
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Pssst.... How to Propose: A Grooms Guide
Maybe XMas is the day you'll propose?

No sweat! …here is a guide to get you there:
Part One
Think about her…. Remember: This moment will be a zillion times more important to her than it could ever be for you—stuff of legions…. and will be retold by her and her sister again and again—so really consider what SHE would like….and waiting until half-time of the big game is probably not the direction….think ‘romance’….Drew Brees is cute but! I think you get the point. If you think about it, I’m sure she’s probably dropped a hint or two and will appreciate any effort you make to personalize the proposal in a way that says, “Yes, I ‘hear’ you …and totally ‘get’ you”.
Read on to Part two...
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Pssst.... All you need is love...

They are slightly obsessed with all things wedding blog related. They laugh at ourselves and one another often while secretly thinking they are pretty awesome (Shh!) They believe the most awesome people we know are brides.
"We are swooning over this one! Have your flower girl deliver a secret message to your groom before you walk down the aisle!"
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Pssst.... Now for What your client really thinks

My first weekly column was in a weekly tabloid magazine in Texas, and part of my job was to set my column on the Linotype the night before they went to print.
When they invested in a new technology called the Compugraphic typesetter, that portion of my job became much easier. So much so, in fact, that I sometimes composed my column “on the fly” (which drove my editor nuts!)
After nearly a year...
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Pssst.... Sometimes you just need the advice of The Bad Ass Mama
Let me explain.
I (Sherice, otherwise know as One Bad Ass Mama) am a firm believer that there is a difference between book smarts and street smarts. Academic learning and common sense, knowledge and wisdom. Each is valuable in its own way, and not all folks are created equal when it comes to any of the above. I'd like to think that I have a good balance of book smarts and street smarts, and just enough common sense to make me dangerous. But my true strength is traditional academic learning. I'm a nerd, a geek, bookworm, teacher's pet. You name it, I've been called it and have LOVED every minute of it....
... It hit me on the way back from gymnastics this weekend. The teacher let me know that Angel only got 3 stamps (instead of 4) because he was not following directions during the parachute activity (I was changing Victor's pamper, so I didn't see him through the window). She told me that, while his skills were very strong and he did a great job in the smaller group stations, he tended to wander during larger group activities. This, of course, was nothing new to me but I was hoping that it was just a phase that he would magically emerge from. Like, tomorrow.
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Pssst.... Wanna know what writers think

When I was younger, my sister and I had the babysitting market cornered in our little town. Supply and demand. There were two of us and tons of them; each week we had our pick. I am a bit embarrassed to say that we actually had a rating system.
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Pssst.... Can I annoy you for a second?

While it was not scientific at all, I asked some of my colleagues to list off some of the things that organizations and bosses do that annoy them. I began to compile a list and categorize them. Here are just a few of the one’s that popped out for me, some of which I would quit over.
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Pssst.... Damien loves Molly

Molly and Damien we had such a blast with you guys and we can’t wait for the wedding!
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Getting a Pssst.... From Santa

Call me crazy, but I took Ellie to the Southern Christmas Show on Friday for one purpose: to visit Santa.
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Pssst.... Introducing Vanity Fragrance
Pssst.... Everybody’s Creative. Just Don’t Tell The Creatives
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Pssst.... I hear he likes you.

Have you ever been told someone likes you? Admires you? Someone that you may not have noticed before? Better, still, has anyone you hadn’t previously noticed said nice things about you directly? Chances are, if he or she did, you looked at them in a different light. You may have even begun to think about them in a more positive way. After some time, you may have felt attraction toward them.
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Pssst.... Why Is My Teen Keeping Secrets From Me?
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Pssst.... The Best Secret Bars in New York
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Why young people pirate (Pssst: It's not just about money)
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